10 Things Montessori Kids Say That Surprise Parents!

Little voices, big words, and what they tell us about Montessori...

1. “I’m still working.”

This is one of the most common phrases you’ll hear in a Montessori classroom- and one of the most powerful.

Children are taught to focus deeply on their work and to protect that concentration. Instead of grabbing or protesting, they learn to calmly communicate their intention to finish.

For a preschooler, that’s a big deal!

2. “I’ll try again.”

In Montessori, mistakes are expected. Materials are designed with built-in control of error, so children can notice and correct their own work.

That’s why you’ll often hear this phrase said quietly and confidently. No drama, no meltdown, just persistence.

3. “May I have a turn when you’re done?”

Grace and courtesy lessons are woven into everyday life in the classroom.

We practice how to ask for a turn, how to wait, and how to respond respectfully. Over time, these phrases become natural and they show up even when adults least expect them.

4. “I can do it by myself.”

This one is usually said with great pride.

Montessori environments are designed to support independence, so children are given real opportunities to dress themselves, prepare food, and care for their space.

When a child says this, they’re expressing confidence- not defiance.

5. “I need help, please.”

Independence doesn’t mean doing everything alone.

Montessori children learn that it’s okay to ask for help after they’ve tried. This balance between effort and support helps children trust themselves and the adults around them.



6. “I’m feeling frustrated.”

Emotional language is part of daily classroom life.

We name feelings, acknowledge them, and help children work through challenges. Over time, children begin to identify their emotions themselves, often with impressive clarity for their age.

7. “That’s not how we take care of our materials.”

Montessori children develop a strong sense of responsibility for their environment.

They understand that materials are shared and valued, deserving of care. Sometimes they take this role very seriously, and yes, they will gently remind others (including adults).

8. “I’ll clean it up.”

Cleaning is not a consequence in Montessori — it’s simply part of living and working together.

Children are shown how to sweep floors, wipe spills, wash windows, and restore order. Because they know how to clean, they’re more willing to do it.

9. “I choose this work.”

In Montessori, children choose their activities within clear limits. This freedom builds motivation and engagement.

When children refer to their activity as “work,” it reflects their sense of purpose and ownership even when that work looks like play to adults.

10. “I’m proud of myself.”

Instead of relying on rewards or constant praise, Montessori encourages intrinsic motivation.

Children learn to evaluate their own effort and progress. Hearing a preschooler express pride in themselves is a reminder of how capable young children truly are.



Montessori children are still very much children: joyful, curious, emotional, and yes, always ready for a snack! Yet when they are met with respect and meaningful responsibility, they rise beautifully to the occasion. The thoughtful language they use is a reflection of that growth and often comes as a surprise to the adults around them.

For us at Eden Prairie Montessori, these moments serve as quiet reminders that our daily work matters, and that children are capable of far more than we sometimes imagine!

If you’re curious about how Montessori looks in action and whether it might be the right fit for your child, we invite you to connect with us at Eden Prairie Montessori. We’re always happy to answer questions, talk about enrollment, or welcome families for a tour of our preschool. Seeing the environment and the children in person is often the best way to understand what makes Montessori so special.



We look forward to welcoming your family into our Montessori community!